Do you know anyone in your life that is trying a
self-improvement process? Many of these generally well-intentioned ideas end up
as little more than fads, some taking longer to turn than others. I myself am
guilty of trying these approaches, only to return to a “baseline” state of
operation. These processes are wildly varying, ranging from religious
experience (Prayer of Jabez) to fitness and workout (Billy Banks) to DIET (too
many to mention) and mental health and supplements. But they all seem to come on
strong, promise to change EVERYTHING – and burn out almost faster. So, while I
was speaking to a friend who is interested in health, I had occasion to look at
why the approach was not working in her life – and we came to an interesting
discovery.
My friend was looking and following “the rules” as she had
understood them from many books, pamphlets and programs, only to still have the
core issues that she was trying to address. She was literally following ALL the
rules she could remember – and having zero or sometimes negative results. So,
we looked at what the “rules” were. Interestingly, she was right – and was
following the rules to the letter. So – we wondered what was wrong. Would these
people lie for a dollar?!? In AMERICA?!? Well, it turned out that there was
something a little less sinister and a lot simpler than that which was causing
all the issues.
For her journey, every expert insisted that an exercise
regimen be in place while the program was being undertaken. Each of the books
and doctors recommended different levels of exercise, but all of them merely
gave suggestions – vague guidelines that should be followed in order for the
rest of the process to work well. Some suggested adding activity to your day
(walk extra stairs, park further in the parking lot) others stated that adding
to normal activities would do the trick (take your dog for a 30 minute walk, be
sure and warm up every morning) but absolutely NO ONE said “go to the gym for
45 min and do aerobic exercises”. Each of the books had the underlying
assumption that the person was doing SOMETHING of value to the process, and the
rules then applied with the assumption in place.
Many people try these well intentioned programs while
skimming through the “assumptions” list. Many never even see that list at all –
and jump head first into a set of rules, expecting a magic result. This is
“silver bullet” thinking, and it is prevalent among our culture. But, as my
friend found out, unless you DO the assumptions, results “may vary” – and
generally to the negative. When intelligent people try a process of
improvement, but either forget the goal or do not set the foundations for
success, they can easily become frustrated and not understand what went wrong.
Even when we DO have the goal in front of us, if we do not have a strong
self-examination bend, we can see things go awry. Frustration is one of the
last steps in the downward decline into failure.
As an Agile coach, I see this more often than not.
Sometimes, a client that does have a string inspect and adapt cycle is wise
enough to recognize the need for tuning and will call me in for an assessment
and an exercise. Sometimes, a client will start “following rules” and become
frustrated and ask for justification. Usually, I see that either the goal is not
understood by all, or the assumptions that are needed are not checked or in
place – or the TEAM itself disagrees on what the goals are. The reasons for
this are varied and complex, can range from emotional and cultural issues or
can be a result of uncontrolled change (positive and negative). Regardless of
the reason, looking at the teams and organization, spending time with them in a
small project and observing takes time but yields the appropriate result. The
biggest challenge I have faced is that once we know what the problem is, we
have to come to a decision on how to address it. Many clients are simply not
ready to commit to “working out for 45 minutes daily” – or allowing the teams
to self-organize, or allowing a team to fail…
How can we at AI help you in your organization? Our mission is to assist you with the transformational change modern organizations need to address a dynamic and competitive market. We want to help you analyze where you are and provide you the tools to help you get to that self-examination that is needed for true agility. Reach out and let us know – we can walk you through the hard steps and help you reach a better place.
How can we at AI help you in your organization? Our mission is to assist you with the transformational change modern organizations need to address a dynamic and competitive market. We want to help you analyze where you are and provide you the tools to help you get to that self-examination that is needed for true agility. Reach out and let us know – we can walk you through the hard steps and help you reach a better place.
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